Family Caregiving: When a Loved One Isn’t Able to Remember

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When you are caring for a family member or loved one who is experiencing extreme memory loss from a condition like dementia, it can be a stressful time for everyone involved. Your loved one may become agitated or embarrassed when not able to remember or participate in a conversation. You may become frustrated that an event that was significant to you or to them could become lost and forgotten. Help yourself and your loved one through these trying times by using the below tips, presented by Vancouver Home Care Assistance.

  • Observation – When patients suffer from dementia or Alzheimer’s, symptoms can be worse at particular times during the day. See if there is a certain time of day when your loved one’s memory loss may be worse, or when they may seem more agitated than usual. Track this information in a journal, citing what happened and things that may have triggered a change in mood or behavior. You can then have your loved one complete tasks or make trips outside the home during times that you anticipate that they will be at their best.
  • Patience– Don’t make anything overly complicated. It’s important to remember that your loved one is not acting out of character on purpose and it can be a frustrating and even frightening experience for them. If you feel that you cannot effectively cope with and care for their new symptoms, it may be time to consider help from a professional caregiver. Caregivers who provide part-time care in Vancouver can help with certain daily tasks such as bathing and dressing which may require more assistance and patience to ensure safety for the senior.
  • Routine – Create a daily routine for your loved one, whether it includes walks around the neighborhood or a hobby like gardening. When you have to deviate from your loved one’s daily routine, let them know in advance can help to ensure that they feel safe and comfortable about the day’s new activities. It’s also important to remember that the same things don’t need to be done at the same exact time each day. For seniors with dementia or Alzheimer’s, the most important thing is keeping activities in order.

When a loved one is losing their memory and becoming increasingly dependent on you and other family members and friends, it is important for you to also have some type of support system. Whether seeking out support groups or talking with other family members, it can be therapeutic to share your frustrations and experiences with caregiving with others going through similar situations.

For more information about caring for a senior with dementia or another memory-related condition, reach out to Home Care Assistance. We are a premier provider of dementia care in Vancouver, offering certified caregivers who are trained in our exclusive Cognitive Therapeutics Method which boosts brain health and promotes mental acuity. Call a friendly Care Manager today at 778-279-3634 and schedule a complimentary, no-obligation consultation.


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